How To Learn To Make Real Decisions Instead Of Just Watching Your Life Go By

by Catholic Bible Studies And Reflections, Self-Knowledge

One of the best ways to enrich your prayer life is to pray the gospel reading personally. A great way of doing this is using the “Lectio Divina”; this is a powerful method which we explain here.

We hope that it helps you in your personal prayer and that it serves as a resource that you can share with your apostolate.

Gospel Of Luke 6:28-36

Jesus took Peter, John, and James and went up the mountain to pray. While he was praying his face changed in appearance and his clothing became dazzling white. And behold, two men were conversing with him, Moses and Elijah, who appeared in glory and spoke of his exodus that he was going to accomplish in Jerusalem.

Peter and his companions had been overcome by sleep, but becoming fully awake, they saw his glory and the two men standing with him. As they were about to part from him, Peter said to Jesus, “Master, it is good that we are here; let us make three tents, one for you, one for Moses, and one for Elijah.”

But he did not know what he was saying. While he was still speaking, a cloud came and cast a shadow over them, and they became frightened when they entered the cloud. Then from the cloud came a voice that said, “This is my chosen Son; listen to him.” After the voice had spoken, Jesus was found alone. They fell silent and did not at that time tell anyone what they had seen.

A map is not the same as the region! We can be thinking of making certain decisions but until we put them into practice they will only ever be possibilities. We can imagine exploring a city, we can map out our route in our minds, but we don’t ever visit that city until truly we set out. Many times our decisions are nothing more than movies we play back to ourselves in our minds. They are pleasant or courageous desires we like to hide in without ever trying to make them reality.

“A man who fears suffering already suffers from what he fears.” – Montaigne
Making a decision is always a journey that forces us to leave our securities behind. Important decisions pull us out of our minds and force us to confront the real world. They also imply the possibility of erring and of failing. In other words, decisions require true commitment. 

The Gospel of Luke shows us Jesus at the crossroads of decision: he must choose between carrying out his decision to its final consequences or turning back. Perhaps it’s no coincidence that we find in this passage that same invitation from the Father to listen to his Son (“This is my chosen Son…”) that we had heard at his Baptism, which was a kind of investiture by the Father and acceptance of the mission by Jesus. Now in the moment of the re-decision, Jesus returns to the foundation of his mission: the obedience to the love of the Father.

After a period of confronting reality (from chapters 3 to 9 in Luke’s Gospel), the question returns. Jesus always remains fully free in the face of his mission. Jesus is never obligated. His freedom is where he chooses his obedience to the Father.

Therefore we find ourselves at the crossroads between the Baptism and Jerusalem, between the initiation and the goal of the journey. It’s fundamental, however, that we read this passage in relation to the last verses of Luke’s 9th chapter: “He resolutely determined to journey to Jerusalem” (9:51).

In the face of Jesus’ resoluteness, perhaps, for those of us stuck at a crossroads, our lives appear before us. We brood over and turn back on decisions that we have yet to make reality. We procrastinate before our responsibilities without ever truly assuming them to their ultimate consequences.  We make the journey in our minds without ever getting on the train of reality.

The passage from Luke is built on this opposition between movement and stability, between leaving and staying: Jesus speaks with Moses and Elijah about his exodus, of his journey, of abandoning his securities. Peter on the other hand speaks of tents to stay in; he wants to stay there and make do with what he has.

In the moments of re-decision, when at a crossroads, Jesus looks to the Scriptures: Moses and Elijah, the Law and the Prophets – a phrase we often find in the Gospel and which refers to all of Scripture.

The time of the crossroads is also a time of darkness, a time in which the direction we must take is unclear. It is a time in which we feel enveloped in a frightening cloud, but at the same time, the cloud that envelopes us is also the cloud in which God speaks, inviting us to listen to his Son. Hopefully, we are not too busy playing back the magnificent movies we keep in our minds to hear him!

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